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I titled this write-up with the above “You matter” because of a devastating report I got last week about a fantastic person; well, I won’t mention the name but continue reading. I will unravel this person in the last paragraph of this write-up.

First of all, never believe the lie that you’re the only one going through a hard time. Others are going through even worse problems, but they do not allow the situation to override their thinking; I would recommend seeking professional help feel you can’t take it anymore.

Getting back on topic, every human on this planet is unique, irrespective of our ethnicities, race, or social status. You matter because you’re still breathing. You matter because your extraordinary passion would help someone else dream more significantly; you matter because someone will need you in the future; this is exemplified as a company hiring you, your children looking up to you, or your spouse.

In a nutshell, never look down on yourself; I mentioned this in the video to always endeavor to give back to the world; it could be your time, money, or voice; give back; it has a long-lasting reward.

Okay, so revealing who that person is, that person is anyone who gives up on themselves, that person is someone who thought they did not matter, but they did. Please don’t be that person.

Conclusively, I wrote 21 daily affirmations just hop-into my website. It’s the very 1st blog. You can read it out loud to yourself, there’s so much power when you proclaim words back to yourself, and you can personalize it; I painstakingly wrote it that way so that anyone can use it.

Feel free to watch the video if you would like, and before I call it a day, “YOU MATTER.”

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21 Affirmations for personal wellbeing.

I promised I delivered.

Please readout these 21 Affirmations daily!

  1. I believe I am made to prosper
  2. I am surrounded by all the help I need
  3. I am never alone; God will help me breakthrough
  4. I believe I am not what I am going through; it will pass
  5. I believe I am the best in my endeavor
  6. I believe my business will flourish
  7. I believe I have all I need to win
  8. I know who I am
  9. I believe I am a fighter who will conquer all grounds
  10. I(Insert name) is victorious
  11. I (insert name) is a product of greatness
  12. I (Insert name) is moving from glory to glory
  13. I (Insert name) is moving from success to success
  14. I (insert name) is a conqueror
  15. I will rise above failures
  16. I believe 2021 would be my most extraordinary year
  17. I believe I am made for signs and wonders
  18. I believe in the goodness and mercies of God
  19. I have good health
  20. My days, weeks, and morning are in God’s hands
  21. My family, health, business, and endeavors will grow because it’s in God’s hands.
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Maximize your youthfulness- Beatrice Otie

I am not an expert when it comes to storytelling, but I can try, Beatrice laughs.
In the last quarter of 2019, when I worked at the Windsor regional hospital, I wheeled a patient to their supposed care unit when an older lady walked up to me and said, use your young age wisely, young lady.

Initially, I took it as a compliment, but then after returning home from work. I started wondering why she used such a statement, and oh, then I realized how your youthful years are not forever, and you must do all you can to maximize opportunities given to you.

Before I finish the remainder of this post, I saw a quote by my cheerleader of dreams, Terry Savalle Foy. She said, “Excuses will always be there for you; opportunities won’t.”

So, for my fellow youths, aside from getting a degree, becoming an employee, have you thought of doing something else?
What about searching within yourself to see any unique quality that stands out from others?

Have you thought of setting up an online business?
Ten years from now, will you still be working eight to five jobs?
These were all the thoughts that clustered in my neurons, just moments after hearing, “Use your young age wisely” Remember, no one will be young forever. Start something new; I am grateful for COVID because it forced me into the place I have always envisioned.

Please set your reminders for the last episode of the standing out series.
I plan on coming live, but in the next episode after this. Yes, Live on youtube …You finally get to see my real face!!!

Okay, till next time!.

Did you miss the previous episode, heres the replay.

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How to stay sane in 2020! |Take care of your mental health|

I was scrolling through my news feed, especially on Facebook, because I use it more often, and something that jumped out to me is that many people are going through mental health challenges in this unprecedented time.CoVID -19 did justice to this, so it should not be overlooked.

Although some government provides services to their citizens, other governmental bodies don’t have any system in place, so what can you do for yourself, while this pandemic lasts?

It would be best to take care of your mental health and not shy away from it. There is stereotyping for mental health victims globally; for some reason, because someone has stress or feel sad, people judge them that they’re abnormal; meanwhile, the judge has been through hardships at some point in their lives. It is very okay to be judged; please don’t take it to heart; get better, and stay afloat.

How do you take care of yourself? I am not here to preach a long sermon. Firstly, make sure you have an accountability buddy, someone you are transparent with; this is very easy for married couples. However, If you’re in North America, which can get pretty lonely, and you’re single, call your local emergency number; it could be 911, 000,118,112, and so forth.
Do not die in silence assuming someone is aware; speak out.

Secondly, do what makes you happy, this could be singing, for me, dancing, or watching a movie with friends or co-workers. Similarly, you could go for bowling or any local community activity; however, be mindful where you go, do not fall into bad gangs in the name of satisfying your mental health difficulty.

Thirdly, volunteer your time, it has a ripple effect, giving your time makes you happy as a person, because you’re solving other peoples problem. For me, it releases endorphins in my brain and has a calming sensation in my soul.

Lastly, I don’t know why no one talks about this, but journalling is pretty cool; ah, this helped me stay sane in 2020. It is a great way to keep your mind busy, and it takes your mind off whatever issue you’re dealing with. Additionally, you can include meditating as you journal; for my Christian friends, you know, praying and journaling go hand in hand. I hope this helps.

Feel free to add your thoughts; these are my subjective opinions, which may vary with yours. Stay safe!

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Dare to Hope! warning(Long read)

Dare to Hope~ Cherly Nemhard.
After ministering during the encounter, I sensed a fire in Windsor Christian like never before. I love the refining that is taking place.
I see many people left the church; it is okay; it’s the refiner’s fire God is working on his church.

Today was powerful; the enemy made my sleep sweeter so that I don’t attend service today. I had to rush off to church, and I am so glad I did. The message is the best I’ve heard so far in the year 2020. I came expectant, and I got what I needed. As you may have noticed, I type out my sermons and keep them here. This is because Facebook will remind you four years later or two years later. That way, I read through them and smile; some people have noticed my seven-year post and commented, so you see. It is always good to have a track record; businesses call it brochures.

The two profound questions before the sermon.
What do you do when what’s in front of you seems absolutely impossible
to cross over?
What do you do when it looks nothing like God promised?

Okay, let me dive into the topic; I am sorry for keeping you waiting joor.
The topic was, “dare to hope.
The scriptures were Joshua 1:6-9 and Daniel 3:17&18.”

She said, how will your hope fare when things don’t go your way ,when you’re separated from your loved ones, when you’ve lost your job, when life gives you a heavy blow.
Hope is a spiritual weapon; you can use against the enemy’s blows; it is a shield for your mind.
She said, dare to hope in God.
God said dare to hope in the one who holds your future(Psalms 42:11)
This got me her definition of Hope.
Hope is the glorious holy posture of defiance to the overwhelming darkness that tries to surround you.
Hope says I haven’t done all to stand; Hope says I know the one who speaks to the storm.
When life says you can’t get through this, Hope says you’re more than an overcomer.
No more spiritual amnesia; when the storm hits and you question God, where are you? Hope speaks.
Hope is intentional; Hope is active, fear and doubt knocks, Hope recalls God’s faithfulness, Hope remembers who God is. Hope remembers what the word of God says in you life.

She started with this “some of us are facing a challenge; obviously, 2020 came with her bag of challenges. We don’t know what life will look like after 2020, or what the new normal will be.”Canon illusive”
Some of us don’t know what God wants for us Versus our reality.
She mentioned her most significant word is trust, but today she will be speaking on “Hope.”

She mentioned that we need to know Jesus for ourselves, a great life that thrives outside of a Sunday experience: the relationship with Jesus.
We need to know and understand the mercy of Hope.
For those whose Hope is wavering by what they’ve gone through.
God is repeating Hope.
God is saying to hope in humanity.
God is saying Hope in that situation.
God is saying Hope in the church.
From her diaries, she wrote, “Hope is like a drop of harmony.
Hope is fresh air, childless sky on a perfect day.
She said the only thing keeping me afloat in the world today is Hope.
Amid the global crisis, racial protest, hatred, and unrest all over the world today. Hope is what she holds on to.

Isaiah 46: 8-10
God promised to keep in mind,
God says in his word in Isiah that there is none like me; every plan from God will come to pass.
The sovereignty of God is sometimes hard to understand, but it’s okay. You don’t have to understand it all at once; hope in God.
Only trust God and hope-
In Joshua, it says to meditate day and night in God’s holy word.
Please don’t get distracted hope; hope is a bold choice; it overwhelms darkness.
Now she moved to Elijah when Elijah asked for rain, and he kept seeking God, bothering him after six requests; God kept saying No until he finally said a yes.
Another reference was Abraham dared to hope in God for his promised son. He even offered to give his son a sacrifice. If he died, he hoped God would provide because he believed that God is all-powerful.
Daniel dared to hope in God for protection.
The flames Nebudchadnezzar threw the Hebrew boys(they refused to eat the food from Nebuchadnezzar.
Sometimes when we compromise food towards what others are bringing to us, this can lead to hatred, conspiracy, and division.
We have the power to refuse that; we are sons and daughters of God.
Can you risk death for hope?
We will not fall under society’s pressure to lose our faith; we will not fall into anti-God schemes, we will hold fast.

We often fall into social media and get anorexic; we must fast and pray(this is where we get spiritual energy/muscle). We should not feed off from social media; if we do, we can start getting negative thoughts and eat into our identity.

Dare to hope, even if God doesn’t move in the time and in the manner in which we wanted him to move, will you still trust God, will you always keep the faith?

What if God says a bog NO to your request?
Lastly, she said God is not surprised by 2020!
Hope is a weapon against the overwhelming darkness.
Daniel 2:20-23
Light dwells with God; his decisions are the best; it is better than your 1% thoughts.
Let hope arise in every worshipper as you pray for the world.
Let hope awaken your energy.
Let there be a renewal of your faith in God.
I drop my pen.

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Find yourself! your unique destiny…

I am writing this because of a recent post I saw in headstart Africa. The post was about discovering your destiny and pursuing it with Holy anger.
Ever wondered what you were created on this planet for?
Why are you here?

The entire 2020 has been a remarkable year for everyone worldwide, whether American, Canadian, Nigerian, or British. We’re all questioning why a tiny virus could disrupt the economy and significantly shutdown events. However, I believe God used this pandemic to recruit destinies; people who will embrace their unique future through thick and thin and shake the world.

So back to the topic, do you know what you’re destined to do on the planet?
If you find your “why,”? Have you thought about how you can polish your skill or craft to become world-class at it? Be mindful of stumbling blocks and obstacles on your way to finding your gift. They will be many but do not let obstacles make you falter; let it make you rise.

At the end of the tunnel, when you finally breakthrough, you will be happy you made those hard decisions, and nature will beckon on your fearlessness in not surrendering to its hard flames.
Find yourself, find you!

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Is your life hard? Can you fix it?

Life is unfair is usually a statement pessimists uses; however, when compared to death, I wonder what phrase would be used, “fairer.”
Well, Life was never created to be rosy so that you can find your true self and contribute to the world.

I seldom listen to successful people from Barak Obama to Oprah Winfrey to famous athletes and musicians. As you may have noticed, they all echo the same words, “It’s been a tough journey.”

Life is meant to be challenging because the earth/universe is searching to see if you would give up on her and be like everyone else. She is waiting to see if you will release your unique supernatural qualities and counteract her bickerings.

The uniqueness of embracing toughness and accepting pain and challenges is that it molds you to become stronger, better, and refined.
Ever wondered why after making a mistake, you don’t repeat it? Why is this?
You take the lessons, which makes you better, store the information in your brain, and keep learning. It would be best if you overcame battles thrown at you because they will come, and they will be many.
I believe the first battle is the one waged in mind within ourselves. learned
a quote by Sheldon Kopp- “All of the significant battles are waged within the self.”

Get the fight, keep fighting, and receive your wins, IWIN.

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Relax, you got this!

How is the remainder of 2020 treating you?

Don’t let the unprecedented event, the ongoing pandemic, get a monkey out of you; instead, let it propel you to take control of your life and become all that you were meant to be.

Here is a quote for you; I hope it makes you feel better.

In failing forward by John C Maxwell, “Every major difficulty you face in life is a fork in the road. You choose which track you will head down, toward breakdown or breakthrough” The choice is entirely yours to make; please endeavor to make the remaining forty-seven days remarkable.

Okay, enough of the year, The second half of the “standing out series” will be premiering next Monday; please set your timer. In the previous episode, I mentioned exceptionality, giving value, and incorporating systems. In addition to the above qualities mentioned, I spoke on three additional attributes in this current episode; successful individuals embody these attributes. They are soaring exponentially in this 21st century; tune in to know? What are these attributes?

An encouraging tip here: there are better days ahead. While the lockdown remains, head over to my youtube channel and get reminded about your future so you can create the future you want, see you on the other side!

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Proverbs 18:24 NLT, There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.

I respect the opinion of my dear friend Emily. It does take a genuine friend to tell you the hard truths. Emily and I had an excellent video conversation today, and it was splendid.

I felt the Holy Spirit was speaking through this woman.This is heavy!. Hmnn, I have fought with Emily, and we’ve settled; among all the many friends on the planet, Emily is one that stayed close. Many people always ask me how come you don’t keep many friends; I always say I am careful of who I allow in my space; everybody cannot be your friend. If everyone is your friend, then you’re fake. I am saying this because you will be forced to please everyone, which I am extremely Jesus centered; hence you cannot force your beliefs on me, except they are Jesus centered.

Back to the topic, these are the three things I picked from my God-sent friend, Emily.
Number one, you need to ask God to help you identify your calling, are you called to worship-ministry a full time or part-time? Please invite the Holy Spirit, whoot, I love this one.
Number two, What is God’s unique purpose and plan for my life? Trust me, Emily, you could teach an online course and make sales, haha, I am taking SOI, and the coach teaches this, but she did not include God. I was Holy -spirit struck when Emily mentioned this.

Finally, Seek God to know his perfect timing: you do not want to jump into ministry before your unique timing; you need to have God empower you; just a side note, you do not want to get into ministry late as well.
As such, seek God to equip you.
Thank you, friend, for the quick reminder, and I ask the Lord Jesus to assist me here, in his name, Amen!
For my readers, you can also incorporate these into your life; ask yourself these same questions. They aren’t unique to me! See you next time.

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Getting a Mentor is a Must have’s!

Mentor or a coach, whichever you want to call it. It would help if you had a mentor. The mistake we Millenials make is we don’t see a need to be coached.

Does this sound familiar? “I don’t want anyone to start controlling my life, oh”? I am a full-grown adult, yes, I know that, but you need guidance. You see, when you were born, you did not eat yourself; clothe yourself; you couldn’t even walk yourself. You had to learn all these skills from your parent, specifically your mother.

This in itself is free mentorship; For some strange reasons, adulthood changed this narrative. This is another reason I loved the entrepreneurial community. The community propels one to grow due to the surrounding forces of great individuals within that group. This group is an excellent example, by the way.

A mentor is a guardian, someone who grooms you to become what you desire. Your mother can be your mentor; however, if you are training to obtain professional skills, you need a coach/mentor. There is no great man/woman without a mentor. You can get a paid mentor or a free mentor, that depends solely on what you aim to achieve with your destiny.

If you demand excellence, I will recommend embarking on paid mentorships strictly tailored towards your skill. If you don’t know your skill set or personality type, check on google. “Colleagues are wonderful things, but mentors, that’s where the real work gets done.”-Quote by Junot Diaz. I love these quotes; back to the topic. Find a mentor today and groom yourself to be all that you’re meant to become.